Danica,
I’m coming to you as a fan to try to relay some information that you may already know, but haven’t put into practice yet.
After this weekend’s race at Kansas you’ve gotten blasted pretty hard on social media and the public perception of you isn’t great. The interviews and tweets that you sent out after your race ending crash that was caused by Joey Logano and collected and injured Aric Almirola have hurt what was already a bad perception of you and your season.
Let’s start with the interview. I’m willing to give you a little bit of a pass here because it doesn’t sound like you had seen the replay of the incident, had been given any information about what caused it, nor knew the severity of the injury that Aric, a former teammate, had sustained. You answered the questions that were being asked but here’s the thing that you’re gonna get dinged on. After you mentioned Aric you immediately continued to talk about yourself and your bad luck.
I get that you’re frustrated with your season and recent results. 5 DNFs this year and 3 out of the last 4 races. It’s not been a good year. Let’s be honest, it’s actually the worst season you’ve had to date. At that moment though, the frustrations should’ve been kept to off-air conversations and not the interview. Watch Joey’s interview. He was concerned about you *before* he got out of the car, whereas you wanted to go kick his ass. Did you really think that he dumped you in the fastest part of the track? But I digress.
Next, you sent out this tweet:
A fan corrected it for you:
https://twitter.com/coraygeous/status/863621379328942080
Now, this you can’t be defended on. You’ve seen the replay. You know it was a part failure that caused the accident. You know that Aric was cut out of his car and was injured. It’s possible that you knew before the rest of the world that he had a broken back. While you weren’t at fault for the wreck, bringing up your bad luck at this time is bad form. Internalize or discuss offline the problems with your luck and your results. Don’t put the focus on yourself.
Look at Joey’s tweet by comparison:
Simple. To the point. Compassion for his competitor. Joey is really running for points and a championship. The crash hurt his night and standings in the points. He was likely very upset about that too, but his first concern was to you and Aric. Jimmie Johnson, Denny Hamlin, Kyle Busch, Dale Jr, etc all had well wishes. None of them mentioned their finish or anything about themselves.
I can take it a step further into a non-racing related tweet. Your Mother’s Day wish to your mom the next day:
You wished your mom a Happy Mother’s Day, then again returned the focus to you. Maybe I’m reaching here, but the point remains.
It’s not all about you.
You’re a polarizing figure in racing. Your gender and the fact that you are breaking into a male dominated world means you get more scrutiny than you otherwise should. So you have to mind your p’s and q’s when you speak and when you tweet. In some cases you are in a damned if you, damned if you don’t situation, which stinks, but it is life.
Kyle Busch and Joey Logano are also polarizing figures in the sport. People love to hate on them both. Here’s the difference. They have results to back up their attitudes. They are truly competing each week. They eat, sleep, breathe and live racing all the time. They put in the work. They’ve paid their dues and earned the right to complain. You haven’t. You have been given tremendous opportunity time and time again and have little to show for it. Yes, you have been in the wrong place at the wrong time and been the victim of targeting once in a while (James Buescher at Fontana is one,) but you give interviews with the arrogance of a champion when you are nearly last in the standings. There are 35 drivers in Cup right now that have run all 11 races. You are in front of 2 of them.
We’re past the point of bad luck. Something isn’t working here and I have a strange suspicion that it’s you. Put in the time to be with your team and really honestly work at being faster and better on the track. Stop trying to fight everyone and stop complaining when you don’t get the results that you want. Do work and the results will follow. Look at Ricky as an example. In your own words you said he’s one of the hardest working people you know, constantly working to improve himself. When he’s been wrecked out of something, he’s not whining about it. He picks himself up and works harder next week.
Now, you probably don’t care about my opinion. But it’s not one that I hold alone. If you really want to be a racer and you really want to win and be successful in NASCAR and not flop like most open wheel converts you’re going to have to prove it. You’re going to have to work to win over fans and sponsors. If you don’t want to race anymore though, if your heart just isn’t into it and you don’t want to do the work, then announce that you will retire at the end of the season. Nobody will fault you for it. NASCAR is tough. Many before you have tried and failed. Don’t hold a seat that could be used for someone who wants to win though and is willing to put in the work to do it.